Valentines day. A day people just love to hate. Couples try to outdo each other, just so they can post it on facebook and prove that they are better than others. It seems as though the day turned into either a world wide competition or a hate/sulk fest for those who are not in a relationship. I got to admit, initially, I also wanted to be blown away by my significant other. I was so endorsed in the superficial image of Valentines day that I forgot the actual purpose of the day. The way I see it, valentines day is like taking a mana pot. Whilst you are build to be able to sustain yourself, after a period of combat, your mana bar will eventually deplete. Before you completely run  out of mana and become completely useless (which obviously means game over, or in this case, relationship over), you can use valentines day as something to give you a boost to keep going. That was probably a shit analogy, but fuck it =D. 

I feel as though valentines day is a day where you can both remind each other of why you're both in the relationship to begin with. It's a day to treat her like your queens and him like your king. It's a day to set aside whatever problems you have in your relationship to the side and start to show how much you love each, despite all the ups and downs. It's a day to look past the flaws that have unveiled itself over time, and begin to love each other unconditionally once again. With weight lifted off your shoulders, even for just a day, it makes things a lot easier (that is if you use the day properly). Tension, if there is any, is lifted, so that you can actually appreciate them for who they are and what they do, rather than being so occupied with what they are not doing. It doesn't just have to be valentines day, do it whenever the hell you want. The date doesn't matter, what matters is that you don't stop appreciating them for who they are, and that you understand that everyone will have either flaws, even you yourself. Just be sure that you are blessed to be with the person you love.

I wrote this on the night of Valentines day and I forgot to post it (oops) =3