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I honestly don't see the point in hating and creating dramas. I see it as such a waste of time. People are always so judgmental that is ugggh. With me, yeah I judge people, I'm not perfect. HOWEVER, I don't act on my judgments. I don't hate people for their flaws and I don't be an asshole towards them for it. The thing is, because I see that I am as retarded as anyone out there and that I am in no way perfect. I see that I have flaws and I accept my flaws when pointed out by another person. I try and fix things that aren't appropriate as long as the person delivering it is not a complete asshole. 

I really love my grandma, she is an amazing person. Living with her for so much of my childhood really taught me a lot. One of the most important things that she taught me, the thing that really defines me is the fact I can't really hate people. Grandma made me understand that everyone is fucked up, no one is fucking perfect. I tend to see peoples flaws very fast, however, I don't judge them on it. 

"Good people can do bad things, however, it doesn't make them a bad person"

I tend to judge them on what their positive attributes. Lets say for example, someone is two-faced, cocky, however they can be very supportive towards friends,they are lively and encouraging. What I see of them in my eyes would be, "he/she is a nice, lively person who loves and supports their friends whole-heartedly."

Denne thinks I'm a fucking retard for this I know, but that was just how I was raised. Why is it that I'm like this though? Its because I see that people are flawed as fuck, and that I am flawed as fuck too. Also, I believe in karma. I know I'm not perfect and that I have flaws, I wouldn't want people the be dickheads towards me for my flaws and I rather them tell me straight up if they think something isn't right so I can fix it. Because that is how I would like to be treated, I treat people the same way.

Honestly, now that I think about it, that might be why Denne and I get along real well. We both are straight forwards as fuck, and we seem to have a lot of the same values when it comes to this.  We know that both of us are retarded ( you know its true Denne <3) and that we aren't perfect,.We don't blame each other for our flaws and fight over it. because our positive shit is more important. Our positive attributes are what made us come to love each ohter after all. Why ruin something like love with such petty and stupid flaws. It's not like hes a violent, abusive, disloyal douchebaggy 

We get annoyed at each other here and there, but shit gets solved in a snap. 

Example

*Denne does something*

*I snap*

"Hun, I really don't like it when you snap at like that"

".... *silent*... I'm sorry hun, I didn't mean to. Forgive kitty? (tease)"

*Mwuaah*